ASSERTIVENESS
A white male with political or economic stature is expected to be assertive, it is considered a desirable trait. A black man, or woman of any color, with political or economic stature is accused of being a tyrant, in the first instance, or pushy in the second, if they assert their stature. Sometimes "uppity" is used but that has fallen out of favor. Assertiveness in that instance is considered an undesirable characteristic, or so asserts the white males. The presidency of the United States is supposed to be held by a statesman or diplmat who, while asserting his/her stature, must be seen as thoughtful and reasoned. The election of 2008 gave us our first non-white male president. He was thoughtful and reasoned, a gifted diplomat whose assertions were a model of statesmanship. The aggrieved white males whose candidacies were handily rejected could not tolerate this interloper on their rightful domain. "Right" in this instance can have dual meanings. He was a (gas...